A lovely day

Today, I went with my bro to pick out and purchase an engagement ring for the woman he’s been seeing.  It was fun to watch him agonize over the right ring, dreaming about his future with this lovely woman.  He had a set budget, he’d been saving for a while.  She didn’t want anything extravagant, which was lucky, as his budget wouldn’t allow for that.  It was, truly, a very sweet moment in his life.  I felt honored to be apart of it.

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When the saleswoman brought him the total, his face fell.  He was $100 short.  He confessed that even if it had been on the nose, he’d have less than $50 to live on till he got paid.  I applied for a credit card through the jeweler.  I didn’t actually think they’d approve me for one, as I’ve certainly never been acceptable in the past.  But surprise of all surprises, they approved me.  It was a great moment… I was able to help my brother out and I purchased a Christmas gift for myself.  I won’t get it back until just before Christmas, but I fell in love with a gorgeous white sapphire ring and decided to add it to the purchase.  I can’t wait to get it!  🙂

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I never purchase things for me, and I won’t lie, I felt a little bit guilty on the way home about it.  But, when I think about it, I always put others first.  I always buy things for the children.  I certainly never buy jewelry, and seeing as I’ve been helping the bro do research on rings and gems lately, I’ve certainly drooled over quite a few lovely pieces.  I’m really not much of a jewelry girl.  A few friends of mine live by their accessories and fashion pieces.  Me?  I will often wear one ring on each hand.  I rarely wear earrings and if I wear a necklace, I’ll wear it for 6 months straight and forget about it.  Maybe it’s laziness… or maybe I’m just prefer to keep it simple.

The bro was commenting in the jewelry store, how he can’t wait to settle into life a bit more.  How he looks forward to surprising his wife with an anniversary band or a tennis bracelet.  I nodded and smiled, but struggled to relate to his excitement over this.  I’ve never been in relationships where the other person was one to give jewelry.  Or even gifts.  Come to think of it, I’m not even sure I’d know what my reaction would really be.  I almost think it’s easier to buy stuff for yourself.  You know what you’re spending, you know your own tastes – so you’re guaranteed to love it, and you know it’ll fit.  🙂  Those are wins all around.

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I think it’s a rather old fashioned ideal that my bro shared today.  Men buying their women jewels.  The feminist in me says – there’s no need to do that.  But the lady in me smiles and thinks it’s sweet.  I suppose it really just makes me think of my grandparents.  Granddad would buy nana a new piece of jewelry on every cruise they’d take.  Occasionally, he’d buy her a some type of bling for her birthday or for christmas or an anniversary.  I loved watching her light up every time she’d put something on that he’d given her.  She’d tell me the story around each item and I always enjoyed admiring how pretty she looked as she sparkled.

Well folks – I hope you had as lovely a day as I did.  Much love to you all.  Goodnight.

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I bought myself a present

I just bought myself a present.  🙂  It’s been an odd week – with a healthy mix of both amazing experiences and days, and frustrating ones due to a variety of things.  I’m finally after the end of the 3rd week, feeling SOO much better.  Still have a bit of a cough hanging on, but the last 2 days, no fever … first time in 3 weeks I can say that.  I’ll take the improvement.

Work’s been a bit up and down with stress, managed to blast out some serious headway on organization in the house though, so I’ll take that plus side.   Then there was the strange phone call from Australia and visiting a few friends who were down to cheer them up.  Overall – it’s been a great week, just one that I’m kind of glad is finished.

It’s 10:30 at night, and rather than sleeping as I should be, I spent the last hour surfing the web looking for a particular item.  Found it and something else and purchased them.  🙂  One, is a corset.  I’ve been trying to find one that I like for a cosplay outfit I have in my head.  I’m a bit nervous, as I’ve tried a couple out now and they aren’t easy to find the right fit and quality.  That and I’m a bit nervous to build a cosplay outfit.  It’s not something I’ve done before.  I’m going for something with a steam punk vibe to it.

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The second item I bought?  A ring.  For me.  🙂  It’s nothing expensive.  Total, it cost under $20 after a few sales and such.  But it’s pretty.  And I can’t wait to wear it, although we’ll see if it turns my finger green.

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It shouldn’t, seeing as it’s not the type of metal that typically would, but I tend to be sensitive to that kind of thing.  You see, I love rings.  I only wear one on each hand at a time, but those are the one type of jewelry I DO wear.  I tend to forget to put on earrings, and when I wear a necklace, so long as it’s of a high enough quality that I can, I’ll wear it for months and months at a time.  I forget I wear them.  But rings I don’t often forget.

I do a lot of presenting.  I write on white boards.  I type.  My hands are always in view.  It’s why, for a very long time, I was always good about keeping my nails done.  There’s something lovely about having pretty hands, and rings go along with that.

My problem?  I only have a couple of rings.  Well – that’s not quite true – I have maybe 9 -10 different ones – but 4 of them, I won’t wear because of the memories associated with them, 2 are a bit small as they were given to me by my mom (and not necessarily in my taste range) and the other 2 are old ones I bought when I was in my early 20’s.  I never buy myself jewelry.  It seems… wasteful.

I’ve wanted some new rings for a while though.  I’ve got a few in my head that I’d like to come across inexpensively that I’d like to own.  Simple ones.  Nothing extravagant.  I’d like to own a moonstone… I love those.  They make me think of the way the moon looks when it’s full.  They typically have a weird way of shimmering and glowing.  I’d like to own something more celtic or lord of the rings-esque, all silver – no antiquing or black worked in.  I’d like to own a fire opal, I’ve never seen a real one, only lab created ones which really don’t seem to be the same thing.  They are this strange orang-y red colored stone with yellow and red striations in it.  They really do resemble fire.  I’d like to own an emerald, as it makes me think of green things growing.  Funny how my tastes have changed over the years.  It used to be, I was a diamond-only kinda girl.  But the more I see unique jewelry as I get older, the more I’ve begun to appreciate the more unusual pieces and stones.  Makes purchasing things so much more affordable, I must say.  🙂

Well – I should head off, need sleep.  Goodnight Neverland.  Much Love.  XXO.

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